Re: love is pain

by **silksofsweden** Mon Jun 29, 2009 1:54 am

she turning 17 and i met her at a cafe she started to talk to me and started to have a great conversation. then i met her other times and she decided to bring me out on a date

by **pikachumasterbrad12** Mon Jun 29, 2009 8:15 pm

So, she asked you? And you didnt ask her?

by flamsw0rd Mon Jun 29, 2009 9:22 pm

MarioandLuigi wrote:a lot of people make the mistake of looking for love when they must wait until love finds them

just be patient and live your life, eventually that special person will come, until then just have fun and don't let the little things in life get to you

thanks ml, that helps me acutally, but follow what ml said, and you'll be fine.

by **silksofsweden** Tue Jun 30, 2009 10:11 am

oh im going to take it slow. im going bit for bit

by **MarioStar** Sat Aug 08, 2009 1:15 am

Guapochalupa02345 wrote:I don't date girls, usually I'm like a comfort to them.

Same with me

by **silksofsweden** Sat Aug 08, 2009 2:39 pm

yeah this has been my worst summer ever believe me. i have only got one shot and it turned into a huge pile of shit

by **MarioStar** Sun Aug 09, 2009 1:09 am

Why's that , silks? Things go bad for you too?

by **StarDust** Sun Aug 09, 2009 1:36 am

Well now i will start my history!

Last year i was with a girl from my school, we got a chance to date and we did and when it was maybe 1 year we were together something happen, she said ''Come to my place and meet my parent''!! i was WTF!!!, and i have not go... and still i was really in love with her ( i know what is love even if i have 17 yrs old ) and yeah we start to lost contact with each other and then at a night is send me a message to say she is going to Italy and she is not coming back and that she wanted to be with me just one last day. i say fine and it was right, and then when one month later in school one of my friend told me that he has saw her a day, i say fine she lied to me and yes she dump me with another guy that i know and the guy was really messing with me at school ( i'm a kind heart ) and before that she was still with me but one day i saw her by my own eyes dating with another guys!! that really piss me off, i have not pick a fight because i don't like to fight even if it's for someone i really love and because of she i'm now a heartless person but still care for my friend and not for gf anymore!!!

i think i turn emo or something like that but i don't mind as my heart is not in pain, i know real pain in my life just because of girls!!

So one advice EVERYONE, choose one simple boy/girl and that you really like much not just he/she told you ''i love you'' no, it's when YOU told he/she ''i love you''.

by **MarioStar** Sun Aug 09, 2009 4:20 am

Pein wrote:Well now i will start my history!

Last year i was with a girl from my school, we got a chance to date and we did and when it was maybe 1 year we were together something happen, she said ''Come to my place and meet my parent''!! i was WTF!!!, and i have not go... and still i was really in love with her ( i know what is love even if i have 17 yrs old ) and yeah we start to lost contact with each other and then at a night is send me a message to say she is going to Italy and she is not coming back and that she wanted to be with me just one last day. i say fine and it was right, and then when one month later in school one of my friend told me that he has saw her a day, i say fine she lied to me and yes she dump me with another guy that i know and the guy was really messing with me at school ( i'm a kind heart ) and before that she was still with me but one day i saw her by my own eyes dating with another guys!! that really piss me off, i have not pick a fight because i don't like to fight even if it's for someone i really love and because of she i'm now a heartless person but still care for my friend and not for gf anymore!!!

i think i turn emo or something like that but i don't mind as my heart is not in pain, i know real pain in my life just because of girls!!

So one advice EVERYONE, choose one simple boy/girl and that you really like much not just he/she told you ''i love you'' no, it's when YOU told he/she ''i love you''.

Thats SUCKS , Pein!

by **pikachumasterbrad12** Sun Aug 09, 2009 5:35 am

Exactly why you don't date till you get older...Im talking more young teens...

by MarioandLuigi Sun Aug 09, 2009 7:42 am

well that doesn't mean younger folks can't love, it's just not common

what younger folks might think is love, just might be a huge crush that will later pass

by **StarDust** Sun Aug 09, 2009 2:33 pm

Yup ML it is and now i don't want to get a gf because i'm all alone and i see this way more cool for me

by **silksofsweden** Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:42 am

i have always lived alone in my life and if i force to do it again i will have to die cause i cant take it

by Giott M Wed Jan 13, 2010 12:24 am

I been broke up 3 times in my life. Now I ended up being an women-hater.. I just don't talk to them now. I really think of them as "pathetic".

I'm happy to be single now, I don't have to deal with relationships and cry for my love.

by **silksofsweden** Wed Jan 13, 2010 1:10 am

thats good to you but for me its a torture

by Young Weezzy Wed Jan 13, 2010 3:30 am

i have lots of friends that are girls but i dont date at all because it gets boring sticking to one girl your whole life

by <MCS> Wed Jan 13, 2010 5:36 am

That's why there's men....lol j/k

I won't force it on you guys....

But really every relationship I've ever been in has ended bad....I don't think I've ever been part of a good relationship....

by Code Seven Wed Jan 13, 2010 6:21 am

probably the biggest reason i haven't had a girlfriend is my family's/culture's belief that you need to be responsible enough and be able to put food on the table for yourself because that's just common sense if you can't provide for yourself how are you going to provide for your girlfriend or future wife. My friends(well the decent ones anyway) believe in that. and besides for me at this age i'm not sure i can handle heartbreak and what i've heard from pein man that must have been rough. and it is true that a crush is not true love. i've had one but then i soon lost interest as i was maturing.

by **silksofsweden** Wed Jan 13, 2010 5:50 pm

the reason i need a girl is cause i want to share my life with someone. i have only tasted real love once and i lost it. i wanna feel the love again. i wanna love someone and be free from hate, pain and loneliness

by <MCS> Thu Jan 14, 2010 5:59 am

Got a quote

"The mystery of love is greater than the one of death"

Love is the mystery and the pain in life.

by **silksofsweden** Thu Jan 14, 2010 6:13 am

so true. if only love could be so simple

by Medianoche/Del Thu Jan 14, 2010 3:15 pm

~SNG~ wrote:I been broke up 3 times in my life. Now I ended up being an women-hater.. I just don't talk to them now. I really think of them as "pathetic".

I'm happy to be single now, I don't have to deal with relationships and cry for my love.

Jeez, sexist much? Maybe you should stop having such stereotypical views and get over your own personal and unjust angst...

Anyway, young love = lulz. Seriously, reminds me of the days of primary school when kiddies thought "ZOMG THIS IZ MY 1ST BOYFRIEND AND IM GONNA LOVE HIM 4EVR AND MARRY HIM N HAVE KIDS!!1ONE!1!".
But to cheer things up, happy 1 year anniversery my dear Mate. Oh snap... *reads topic title*. Oh well, if things aren't going so well my main advice is don't overdramatise things. Not having a boy/girlfriend at the average age of most posters here isn't the end of the world, you're young and you have friends and family that love you. Maybe it's best you don't have a mate... look at it that way, at least you get to spend more time with friends/family.
Not having a boy/girlfriend when you're older may hurt a lot more (hell... try divorce), but for now it's not the end of the world.
Smile

by **silksofsweden** Thu Jan 14, 2010 3:19 pm

true media. i just have to find someone

by Code Seven Sat Jan 30, 2010 8:40 am

a girl i liked is dating someone else news broke out to me i felt a slight sting but then nothing.

by **pikachumasterbrad12** Sat Jan 30, 2010 9:08 am

Medianoche/Del wrote:
~SNG~ wrote:I been broke up 3 times in my life. Now I ended up being an women-hater.. I just don't talk to them now. I really think of them as "pathetic".

I'm happy to be single now, I don't have to deal with relationships and cry for my love.
Jeez, sexist much? Maybe you should stop having such stereotypical views and get over your own personal and unjust angst...

Anyway, young love = lulz. Seriously, reminds me of the days of primary school when kiddies thought "ZOMG THIS IZ MY 1ST BOYFRIEND AND IM GONNA LOVE HIM 4EVR AND MARRY HIM N HAVE KIDS!!1ONE!1!".
But to cheer things up, happy 1 year anniversery my dear Mate. Oh snap... *reads topic title*. Oh well, if things aren't going so well my main advice is don't overdramatise things. Not having a boy/girlfriend at the average age of most posters here isn't the end of the world, you're young and you have friends and family that love you. Maybe it's best you don't have a mate... look at it that way, at least you get to spend more time with friends/family.
Not having a boy/girlfriend when you're older may hurt a lot more (hell... try divorce), but for now it's not the end of the world.

That might be mainly true but my aunt/uncle were really young when they started going out (elementary school) and they're still married and they're in their mid 40's now.

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